- May 13, 2014
- Category: Family Law
Divorce. This seven letter word changes everything in his life and continues to impact his life for years after that is what is called “complete,” especially if you have kids. However, many of the conflicts that occur between you and your ex spouse does not have to get as bad as they sometimes do. All you have to do is change the way you think and view every interaction with your former spouse as an interaction with the parental couple, discussions, decisions and other interactions can flow much more smoothly.
Summer Holidays and Divorce
Depending on your parenting plan, summer vacation can be difficult to schedule when the kids are with you and when with the other parent time. Most divorced families see the summer as a particularly stressful time, because the kids are home from school and have a lot of time available that needs to be programmed. If you are in the middle of your divorce can be better for the kids to spend the summer with their grandparents or at a summer camp. This will keep them out of the line of fire, however, some children find this isolation of divorce as alienating and therefore you need to get your opinion on the situation before taking any concrete decision about your summer.
Children and Summer Vacation
If you have very small children, then it is in your best interest to spend as much time with each parent during the summer as possible. If possible, try to arrange a schedule of 50/50, so that young children can spend a lot of time with each parent. If not possible, schedule time with each parent so that time is quality. Try to arrange time off work so it does not overlap with vacation time that your ex-spouse, so their young children to spend two or more weeks of vacation each parent without having to go to a nanny. During these weeks of special holidays, spend time bonding with his young son and the creation of a new relationship with them.
Elder Children and Summer Holidays
While older children may want to spend more of their summer vacation with his friends than with you, they still need quality time with both parents provided. Because older children have the ability and desire to be an active part of the planning process for the summer holidays is a good idea to have a family reunion that includes both parents and all children to determine how the schedule summer should be formatted. They can tell you what their plans are all ready and what they would like to do this summer; you and your partner and parenting can bring to the table when your vacation time is and what your schedule looks like. As a family unit, everyone can work together to develop a summer holiday calendar will work best for all members of your household.
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